Tips for Better Public Speaking from TED

Do you enjoy public speaking or does the thought of standing in front of an audience give you the chills?

Whenever you see a list of the top fears, public speaking is usually close to the top. There are many reasons for this trepidation, such as concerns about forgetting their speech or being seen as a fool. Yet the skill of public speaking is often required to succeed professionally at high levels. Therefore, how can someone overcome their fears and become a better speaker?

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On their website, the Bright Network has an interview with Chris Anderson – Head of TED – the non-profit devoted to spreading ideas. From his experience watching and assisting people perfect their talks on the TED stage, he has compiled five important tips for effective public speaking. They can be applied by anyone from novice speakers to the most experienced orator. For Chris, the starting point is the idea.

The most successful presentations focus on one, coherent idea – something that will change the way your audience thinks, acts and approaches the world.

Your idea should take centre stage, not you. As a speaker, your job is to successfully share your knowledge with those listening. Think of it this way – you’re offering your audience the gift of an idea and your presentation is the wrapping paper.

To learn the other four tips, please read the short interview on the Bright Network.

Success Tips for Virtual Meetings

It was five years ago that the world had to adjust quickly from in person meetings to computer bound conversations. During the COVID-19 pandemic, virtual meetings became a necessity. Replacing the old conference call systems with tools like Zoom or WebEx allowed for face-to-face interaction between participants across the globe. However, it also led to a lot of confusion on protocols and etiquette.

Now that we have more experience with online meetings, it is easier to identify the specific components required in order to be successful. Yet, even after all this forced experience, people still commit avoidable mistakes. Follow through on these tips and your meetings will get off to a good start.

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  • Platform – Ensure the virtual platform is accessible by all participants. Meetings stall quickly if someone does not have the right software loaded on their computer or phone.
  • Test the Technology – Hold a pre-meeting to test out features of the virtual platform. For example, do sound checks to ensure mics work and practice screen sharing before the session to avoid embarrassment later. Also, if special features are being used, such as polling or pushing documents, test those as well.
  • Check Camera Angles – Participants should frame themselves in the webcam before starting the meeting. Being too close to the camera, too far from it, sitting off center or having an odd angle on the camera view distracts the other participants. Be careful about back lighting to prevent shadowy conditions. Also, take heed of the background to avoid inappropriate personal items from showing up on screen. If you use a virtual background, make sure it doesn’t interfere with your own image. For example, having a green shirt on while in front of a green background.
  • Double-Check Start Times – Virtual meetings are ideal for bringing people together from across the globe. However, this means the organizers must pay closer attention to the participant’s time zones. An 8 am start time in Boston is a 5 am start time in Seattle. Do not ask participants to take part in meetings outside of their time zone’s normal business hours. Double check invitation start times to ensure they are not accidentally set up for a different time zone.
  • Camera On or Off? – For smaller meetings, having the camera on creates a sense of engagement amongst the participants. It allows for non-verbal communication, such as facial expressions or hand gestures that we normally rely on during in person meetings. For larger meetings, especially presentations, keeping audience cameras off helps participants focus on the speaker. Keeping cameras off may be needed when bandwidth is limited to prevent the system from slowing down or crashing. Participants turn their cameras on only when speaking.

Using these tips should help get a virtual meeting off to a strong start.

Don’t Send that Email … Unless You Have To!

Being careful when sending an email is something every knowledge worker must consider on a daily basis. Below is a section from my article, Effective Email Etiquette, to highlight when it is best to put something in an email and when it is not.

Don’t Send that Email … Unless You Have To!

One of the biggest challenges in effective communication is deciding the medium for the message. For many people, email is a common way to share information. In fact, it is often preferred, as implied by the saying, “this was another meeting that should have been an email.”  Yet it does have limits. Here are times when email is appropriate:

  1. Routine communication: Emails are suitable for routine updates, sharing information, and conveying non-urgent messages. If your message is not time-sensitive and allows for a delayed response, email is a suitable choice.
  2. Documentation: When you need a written record of communication, such as project updates, agreements, or decisions.
  3. Scheduling and coordination: For arranging meetings, confirming appointments, and coordinating schedules.
  4. Formal communication: In professional settings, emails are often appropriate for formal communication, such as job applications, official announcements, and business proposals.
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However, there are situations when hitting send on that message would cause trouble:

  1. Urgent matters: In situations requiring immediate attention or response, consider using a more direct and real-time communication method, such as phone calls or instant messaging.
  2. Sensitive or confidential information: Avoid sending sensitive or confidential information via email, especially if it involves personal or financial details. Use secure methods or direct communication for such matters. If your message involves emotional or sensitive topics, consider having a face-to-face conversation or using a more personal communication method to avoid misunderstandings.
  3. Complex issues: For complex or nuanced discussions that may benefit from real-time interaction and clarification, opt for a meeting or a phone call.
  4. Negative feedback: When providing constructive criticism or negative feedback, it’s often better to deliver it in person or over the phone to ensure clarity and understanding.

What to know more about how to do better emails? Read the entire article on Effective Email Etiquette.

When to Check Your Tech & How to Stop

Have you ever checked your phone for a social media update in the middle of a meeting? Or started looking at news headlines in the middle of a group lunch? Or got distracted by unimportant texts while doing deep work on a project?

It is very easy to be drawn into looking at our phones. This can lead to unproductive behavior and sloppy work. A recent article by Liz Fosslien on the Pocket website wonders why we have allowed these habits to become socially accepted.

I used to do nothing in the face of indiscriminate gadget use. Now, I’ve come to believe that doing nothing is no longer O.K. Staying silent about bad technology habits is making things worse for all of us.

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How do we as a change these habits to make them less desirable? Perhaps we need to develop what investor Paul Graham calls “social antibodies.”

He uses the example of cigarette smoking: smoking in public became taboo over the span of just one generation after social conventions changed.

Like cigarettes, our personal technology use can become a bad habit. People enter a zone when they use their gadgets. Checking email or scrolling through Facebook can be intoxicating and disorienting. Tech makers design these products using the same psychology that makes slot machines addictive. The variable rewards built into apps make time pass quickly and can make people oblivious to what’s happening around them.

How can we build up social antibodies in the workplace? One way is to set up well articulated standards.

The best way to prevent this waste of time is for someone senior to mandate a “no-screen meeting.” In my experience conducting hundreds of workshops, the discussions declared device-free are by far more productive. Setting expectations up front is equivalent to administering a distraction vaccine.

Learn more about how to build social antibodies by reading the rest of the article.

Shola Richards Webinar – Mon. September 16!

Please review this wonderful opportunity to watch one of my favorite authors, Shola Richards, be interviewed about his latest book, Civil Unity. This event is hosted by the Florida Library Association.

Shola Richards – In Conversation with Kris McGuigan

Monday, September 16, 2024, 12 PM – 1 PM EDT
Free for FLA members; $25 for non-members

REGISTER HERE! 

Join us for a thought-provoking and inspiring webinar, featuring best-selling author Shola Richards as he discusses his latest book, Civil Unity: The Radical Path to Transform Our Discourse, Our Lives, and Our World. In a society where division and discord seem to be at an all-time high, Richards is leading the movement to reverse these destructive trends and bring more connectedness, respect and civility to our world. 

During this one-hour session, Richards will be interviewed by FLA 2024 Annual Conference keynote presenter, Kris McGuigan. The discussion will delve into the key themes of the book, exploring how we can unite behind a new kind of civility to create safer communities, reduce toxicity in our political discourse, and build supportive environments in our workplaces and schools. Moreover, Richards will share a behind-the-scenes look at his writing process, points of inspiration, and favorite chapters. 

The webinar will feature a live Q&A session, where attendees will have the opportunity to ask questions. This is a unique chance to engage directly with two authors who are passionate about transforming how we engage with one another and the world around us.   

Whether you are looking to deepen your understanding of civil discourse, seeking practical tactics to implement in your library, or simply want to be inspired by a conversation that matters, this webinar is not to be missed. 

Avoid Enormous Emails

Have you ever opened an email and found it to be the size of a short novel? Did it make you want to close it up and not read a word? Now have you ever sent one of those emails?

Sending enormous emails is not ideal. Email works best when it is brief and to the point. Earlier this year I wrote on an article on my website about email etiquette. In that piece, I shared several tips on how to craft your messages to avoid the enormous emails problem. Below is that section from the article.

Well, there is no hard and fast rule on the maximum length of an email, there are general guidelines based on purpose, content, and preferences of your audience.

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  1. Brevity is Key: Aim to be clear and concise in your communication. Most people appreciate emails that get to the point without unnecessary details. If you have multiple topics to discuss, consider breaking them into separate emails. This helps the recipient to absorb information more easily.
  2. Use Paragraphs and Bullets: Organize your content into short paragraphs and use bullet points to make the text easy to scan for recipients to grasp the key points quickly.
  3. Avoid Information Overload: Too much information in a single email can be overwhelming. Focus on the most important details and provide additional information or attachments if needed.
  4. Effective Use of Hyperlinks: Instead of including lengthy information within the email, use hyperlinks to direct recipients to additional resources or details.
  5. Closing and Call to Action: Clearly state your closing remarks and any necessary calls to action. Be specific about what you expect from the recipient if any action is required.
  6. Proofread and Edit: Before sending, review your email for unnecessary information or repetitive content. Edit for clarity and brevity.

One final point. If you need to share large amounts of information through email, consider sending it as an attachment. Whether as a Word of PDF document, it is easier for the recipient to open the information in a more readable application and print out cleanly if needed.

To learn more about effective email etiquette, please read the rest of the article on the Efficient Librarian website.

Preparing for a Speech

There is an old joke based on the idea that people are more afraid of public speaking than they are of dying. Therefore, at a funeral they would rather be in the coffin than delivering the eulogy!

In all seriousness, public speaking gives many people anxiety. Thankfully there are ways to overcome a fear of speaking in public. One way is knowing how to prepare for a speech.

Prepared speeches happen when a person has time to get organized before speaking, whether it be an hour, a day, or a week. This preparation time can be very useful to ensure a successful speech. Toastmasters International has wonderful resources to help people become better speakers, including tips on preparing for a speech. One key suggestion is to get plenty of intentional practice:

Practice and rehearse a speech frequently prior to delivering it. Ask friends to be your audience, or practice in front of a mirror. Be sure to use a timer to help you pace your speech.

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Another tip for prepared speeches is knowing the environment where it will be delivered. If at all possible, it is suggested to visit the site and practice in the environment.

Become familiar with the stage or the setting where the speech will take place. Get a sense of the size of the stage, where any steps or obstacles might be, and where to enter and exit.

Find more great tips on the prepared speeches and all types of public speaking, please visit the Toastmasters International website.

Scintillating Subject Lines

In January 2024, I presented a new webinar called Effective Email Etiquette. It was designed to highlight best practices for all aspects of email communications. In this post I’ll look back at the tips on how to make effective subject lines.

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A well-crafted subject line is crucial for getting your email noticed and read. To that end, there are simple rules to follow regarding subject lines.

  1. Be Clear and Specific: Clearly convey the purpose or main topic of your email. Avoid ambiguity to ensure the recipient understands the content. Aim for brevity to make it easy for the recipient to quickly grasp the essence of the email. Most people receive numerous emails, so concise subject lines are more likely to be read.
  2. Use Action Words: Incorporate action verbs that prompt the recipient to take a specific action or convey a sense of urgency. If there’s a time-sensitive element to your email, mention it in the subject line. However, be honest and avoid overusing urgency, as it can lead to fatigue.
  3. Personalize When Possible: Include the recipient’s name or reference specific details related to your relationship or previous interactions. Personalization makes email stand out and feel more relevant to the recipient.
  4. Highlight Benefits or Value: If your email offers value or benefits to the recipient, mention this in the subject line. Conveying the value of the email can increase the likelihood of it being opened.
  5. Be Mindful of Tone: Match the tone of your subject line to the nature of the email and your relationship with the recipient. Avoid overly formal or informal language unless it aligns with the context. Writing in all caps or using excessive punctuation can make your email appear unprofessional or overly urgent. Use proper capitalization and punctuation for a polished look.
  6. Consider Mobile Users: Many people check emails on mobile devices, so ensure your subject line is mobile-friendly and not too long.

Remember that an effective subject line can significantly impact the success of your email communication by having it more likely to be opened. Therefore, it is well worth the effort to put in an eye-catching subject line.

To see all of the effective email tips, please read the article accompanying the webinar.

CC or BCC – That is the Question!

Remember back to the last time you typed a very important work email. When the moment arrived to send it to multiple people, a problem arose. Most of the recipients are only being notified of the message as a courtesy and no action was required from them. Do you CC them or BCC them? That is the eternal question?

Back in January I presented a webinar about Effective Email Etiquette. One of the topics I touched on was when it is more appropriate to use CC over BCC. For a refresher, the difference between the two is that CC means all recipients know that person was copied. The BCC is a blind copy and only that person knows they have been copied.

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When is it best to CC a recipient?

  1. For Informational Purposes: CC is commonly used when you want to keep someone in the loop or inform them about the content of the email without requiring their direct action. It allows additional recipients to be aware of the conversation or information exchange.
  2. When Multiple Parties Need to Be Informed: Use CC when there are multiple individuals or teams that need to be aware of the communication but may not need to actively participate.
  3. To Keep a Record: CC can be used to keep a record of the communication for someone who may not be directly involved but needs to be aware of the conversation for documentation purposes.
  4. To Include a Supervisor or Manager: If you are communicating with a colleague and want to keep their supervisor or manager informed, CC can be an appropriate option.

When it is best BCC a recipient?

  1. For Privacy and Confidentiality: BCC is used when you want to protect the privacy of recipients by concealing their email addresses from others on the list. It is often used in mass emails to protect the privacy of recipients.
  2. To Avoid Reply All Confusion: If you are sending an email to a large group and want to avoid cluttering inboxes with unnecessary replies, you can use BCC to hide the recipient list.
  3. When Introducing New Contacts: If you are introducing someone to a group or connecting people who may not know each other, using BCC can maintain privacy while facilitating introductions.
  4. For Sensitive Matters: When discussing sensitive or confidential matters and ensure that recipients do not see each other’s email addresses, BCC can be a useful tool.

As you consider whether to CC or BCC, there are some important considerations to consider:

  1. Ethical Use: Use CC and BCC ethically and responsibly. Avoid using BCC to hide information that should be transparent or to deceive recipients.
  2. Recipient Expectations: Be mindful of recipient expectations. Some people may be sensitive about being CCed on emails, so use discretion.
  3. Company Policies: Some organizations may have specific policies about the use of CC and BCC. Familiarize yourself with your company’s guidelines.
  4. Replying and Forwarding: Note that when recipients reply to an email, everyone in the CC list will see the reply. BCC recipients, however, will not be able to see each other’s replies.

To learn more about effective email etiquette, please read the full text of the webinar on the Efficient Librarian website.